normal, natural and right for the human being is not suffering . However, we feel the pain as constant and we are so accustomed to it that we have come to internalize concepts as extremely absurd as that life is a vale of tears, that if you suffer for something you do not know their real value, if not I've been wrong not appreciate good times in the same way, or even the worst and most absurd of all, love is pain .
were not born to suffer, just not born to be giving head against a wall until he fell unconscious and awoke to continue with the same.
The suffering is the soul what the physical pain the body. When you touch something hot or sharp, you feel pain, your body tells you do not, it will tell you that is wrong. The suffering is the same notice: when your thoughts are on the right track, you hurt, are self-destructive, suffering is a cry impels you to stop doing what you're doing, think what you're thinking. But do not know.
society, culture, history, everything around you, people, books, movies, all it teaches that people suffer. You have to suffer, which is part of life, so you ignore the deafening cry and you're still the same, giving head against the wall until you come to fall unconscious.
We bask in our pain and we can be proud of it and go strutting, believing that we are special because no one understands, no one understands our suffering, nobody knows how bad we've had. We cling to it without realizing it while the air please take him, you take away that pain.
And answer is as simple as understand that suffering exists only within you , who are your thoughts who hurt you, not the acts of others. Others can not cause you to suffer.
Maybe you think it is much easier said than done, but it is not true, because deep down you know. Surely you too happen to be someone is angry at you for something you've done or said and not understood, it has been misinterpreted. And have you felt guilty without reason, then you really know if that person may know your true intentions to do or say that, would know that had nothing to do with harm. Or the situation has been reversed and it is you who is angry.
would be much more simple that when someone does or says something that is not what you expected or what you wanted to do or say, not blame him? What did not think that it has to hurt? Would not it be better also not feel guilty for it, even if the other person does not understand and get angry? Really, why do you blame? What disappointed him , Had not fulfilled their expectations ? Well, who said he had? Who said things had to be as you expected? Who said things "should be" in any way? And if someone said, why is right? Why did you give it without question you if your reasoning is valid for you? And "someone" respect to any individual or group, ie those relating you have in your life: your parents, your teachers, your friends, your brothers, people "important" that leaves TV or write books, people who are affected, Like you, for the most concerning: the society and culture . But these, at last, after all, are composed of people like you and me. It is a symbiotic relationship: the people forming the society and create the culture, society and culture are to people. So if a person can make mistakes, who says that a whole society can not also be wrong?
would be much more simple that when someone does or says something that is not what you expected or what you wanted to do or say, not blame him? What did not think that it has to hurt? Would not it be better also not feel guilty for it, even if the other person does not understand and get angry? Really, why do you blame? What disappointed him , Had not fulfilled their expectations ? Well, who said he had? Who said things had to be as you expected? Who said things "should be" in any way? And if someone said, why is right? Why did you give it without question you if your reasoning is valid for you? And "someone" respect to any individual or group, ie those relating you have in your life: your parents, your teachers, your friends, your brothers, people "important" that leaves TV or write books, people who are affected, Like you, for the most concerning: the society and culture . But these, at last, after all, are composed of people like you and me. It is a symbiotic relationship: the people forming the society and create the culture, society and culture are to people. So if a person can make mistakes, who says that a whole society can not also be wrong?
So we all believe that suffering is part of us, because I do not think one person only, but millions of people over thousands of years. But that fact does not make him real . who you are makes it real. So the next time you suffer for any thing, because a person has not done what you wanted to do, or because things have not gone as expected, or because you yourself have done something that no "should" do, remember the famous proverb: If your problem has a solution, why do you grieve? And if there is no solution, why do you grieve? (The second part is the one to spend more time, because our suffering always come from not accepting the reality that we do not like, but do not accept it solve anything? Are we going to arrange for afflict?).
0 comments:
Post a Comment